Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Cosmo Time!!!

Was reading this article and thought this might be useful for all you ladies that are in my shoes... So the question we always ask ourselves... How do we attract better men???

Here are some tips:
*Men who claim they fell in love with you at first sight(and plays Luther for you-know they did it for the ones before you and the ones that will come after you) or pour on the charm immediately are often trying too hard to win you over, hiding the fact that they have no real potential to develop a relationship naturally.
* Look for early in the relationship: He gets very cozy on the first date, becoming inappropriately touchy-feely; he's refreshingly talkative, but you realize he actually commands most of the conversation, rarely asking you questions about yourself; or he "futures" you on date one or two, using a sweet phrase like "someday we should drive to the mountains to see the snow" (this indicates lack of authenticity or a desire to sell something).
*Another trick to use once you've gone out a few times: Check out his apartment. If booze figures prominently and he's all about multiple flat screens and toys like video games and a pool table, he could be a player.(The porn collection doesnt help either...Damn, this article should have come out 2.5 yrs ago!)

A sign that he could be "a good one"-
* If he mentions he's close with his family. That means he's more apt to be a stable, loving person who wants to make a commitment. (Editors Note: Its nice if he mentions his family, and cares about them and treats his mom right, thats real nice... but when he becomes Captain Save'em, run for the hills!!! Its one thing to be YOUR man, but when you have to share him with his entire family, now thats a different story!)

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