Sad...

I just got word that this girl, Valentin, has gone missing... last seen, Perfections on Tuesday. For those of you who dont know Perfections is a strip club. This is truly an upsetting thing to hear and I hope she is okay and God is watching over her.

News like this brings me to talk about women in strip clubs. Ladies, its not cute for that to be your hangout, you are NOT going to meet the best man for you there. Yeah, I know, its cool, you meet "ballers", free drinks and all that, (trust me, I used to think it was cute too.) But in the end, you met him at a strip club, where he was giving his money to some women shaking her ass in his face and we all know what goes down in strip clubs...

If you arent there with your man, then theres really no reason to be there, give yourself a place, but dont let it be at the bar at Jersey Girls, ya know? And when I say "go with your man" , I dont mean dude you met last night at the club, I mean "your man,man". I wouldnt even suggest going with your girls, someones bound to get drunk and act stupid, fast money, fast cars, fast life, that shit only lasts for so long...

Get it together ladies... if you aint dancing on the pole, stay your ass at home...

Snitches Everywhere...

Was just reading a little story about Kenyon Martin talking about how he swapped spit with a groupie/stripper in Miami and left the club with her, this is not surprising at all. But whats funny is that I think I know who this chic is and its simply because I came across her information yesterday... she goes by Britannia and she truly is the ultimate groupie. I'm not going to hate, she's a very pretty girl, but damn being pretty AND dirty, just dont work out...

http://www.myspace.com/Brittania202

Dont you know that everyone is watching? "They" are everywhere. Get it together.

Everyone gets caught, truth always comes out.

Rumor Alert!

Word on the street is that Nas has his ex Latina girl pregnant! Eek!
Nas is gonna need more than one mic to keep up with his child support. What is this? Some kind of fad now? Getting chicks knocked up at the same time? Wrap that sh*t up homie...
I'll keep you posted

Heartbroken

So, its official. My favorite couple, Kim and Reggie have broken up. *tears*

They are saying that it was just distance that drove them apart. Reggie wanted her to move to New Orleans, but she wanted to stay in LA. Maybe some weren't raised to realize that in love, sacrifices must be made. She chose her career over her love. I hope she doesn't regret this down the road. Maybe they'll even get back! Hope floats, doesn't it?

I'm sure it wont be long until she finds another tall, dark and handsome. Maybe she'll hit up Ray J for part Deux of her famous tape, lol. Why not?

My Main Man- Love you Big Bro...

I had the most amazing time, most times I wish I could have stayed. I had gone to Colombia at the most perfect time, just when I thought my "world" was ending. Taking this trip was the best thing for me and being by my brothers side again, words cant describe. We are truly cut from the same cloth, I am him in a woman version. I wish I can share every picture, but you'd be here all night! May God bless my brother now and always, he has come a long way, and I'm his biggest fan!

Must Have

I always try to support my fellow Colombians, and what better way, than to go out and splurge on a fly bag from one of the hottest purse designers, Nancy Gonzalez. Her fall line has just come out and I must admit- they are amazing! The quality, the style, somehow you just seem to forget that it cost 2 months rent, but hey, who really cares when your shoulder is carrying the envy of all women around!
You can find the hot new bags at:

http://www.neimanmarcus.com

Jay Z feat Rihanna and Kanye West - Run This Town

Jay Z feat Rihanna and Kanye West - Run This Town
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Its no SECRET

That Victoria's Secret will get you every time! You all know by now that I'm an undie junkie, but this is just getting out of hand!!!

Walking down 5th, those bright Pink signs just catch your attention and draw you in!

And really, who cant use new panties???!!!

So I walk in, and $135 later and the cutest lil VS Dog (that was free w/purchase), I sit at my desk staring at the dark pink and lt.pink striped bag, thinking "how did that just happen?"

Consolation: I'll be prepared when that special someone blesses my life ;)

Feliz Viernes Munecos!!!

Ciao

Single & Clueless

This is alot more stressful than I thought, this dating game. I feel so silly asking people what the "rules" are, but I have no idea how to go about things! Sounds so crazy, but I never "dated" anyone!!! I feel like I'm learning to walk...

What date do you kiss on?

What questions do you ask?

When do you go to his house?

What do you wear?

How much do you say?

Am I really interested?

Do I see myself in a relationship with him?

So many questions you must ask! So new to this shit, I wish I could skip this step...This man seems nice, has good qualities, but I just don't know, I don't know...Is being afraid of something new going to have me miss a possible opportunity with a good man? Is two dates even enough to be contemplating a relationship? But then why waste your time if you know or don't think he could be a "partner in crime" (take that line how you want) haha. Starting over is so damn hard- this shit is not for me... is it too late to join a convent???

Moving on Up...

Money Magazine came out with the 10 best places to live for the rich and single. Now, I'm far from rich (but rich with LOVE!) but I'm 100% single bitches!
Edgewater, NJ was named #4 on the list, with the average person living there making at least $105,830 a year!!!! What! I worked down there for almost 4years, where the hell were they then! UGH! lol
Anyway, if you are a certified Golddigger, getting some coffee by the Starbucks, or shopping (or window shopping) at Jewelry Exchange might be your best bet!
Come to think about it, I kinda need to go that Target down there this weekend...hmmmm
;)
Happy Man Hunting!

Read the whole article below-
http://money.cnn.com/galleries/2009/moneymag/0906/gallery.bplive_richsingles.moneymag/4.html

Last Night

Was hilarious. I went to a Twisted Sister event at China Club, actually I think the event was called Rock Of Ages. Anyway, coming from WSOU, I was surrounded by heavy metal/rock for 4 years, and grew to love it. Needless to say, the rocker chick in me came out. I cant imagine what going on tour with them must be like! I was introduced to everyone, and they were all so nice. After that, went over to Amalia, it was cool, and I got VIP parking right next to the red ferrari! lol... After I was done there, had to head over to 44th... which I still cant understand why it took me an hour to get from 55th and broadway to 44th and 8th. So fucking bizarre...

Check out the pics, so funny! Dee Snyder's half cut off and Jay Jay French looking at the other cameras, and me trying so hard it hurt! haha

A Lifetime in a year...

This day last year was a Sunday and I was in Queens, assuming the role of the good girlfriend, ripping and running, meeting deadlines, and going against the current, in every way-fighting for what/who I loved and never cared what the fam thought- Unconditional love. I wish I knew that a year from that Sunday, I was to be single...Getting fed promises that never would come to fruition. In a year, I feel like I've lived a lifetime. A year ago today I was in love with my man, today I'm in love with my ex.
But we're no longer holding on to what WAS, let me focus on what WILL BE... and I know I will be partying my past away tonight! There's nothing like a summer Monday night in NYC!!!
Bottoms Up!

Three-O Bubble Launch Party

Kim was hosting, so you know I had to be there! Got all done up wearing one of mommys little vintage numbers, looking like I was the 4th Kardashian (lol)... Got in and went straight for the free liquor, c'mon you know times are rough! The more money I can keep in my pocket the better ;)

The crowd was a little funny, I dont know, it was a bit odd. The Housewives came out to play, Jill Zarin (NY), Danielle Staub (NJ)- Yes, the "book" one, and Lance Bass, oh wait, he's not part of the Housewives, lol, but was there... A couple other B/C listers were there... and then here comes Kim...

I'm so excited, so groupiefied! But I dont care, I love Kims swag... she goes has a seat in the corner with Khloe and Jonathan Cheban(publicist/asshole)- ask me if she got up from the corner the whole night? NO

Then Jonathan says to me that shes not taking pictures with anyone, what? That got me so mad, him and his stank face because noone gave two sh*ts about him. What? because he was on one episode of Kardashians, I'm supposed to give a f*ck?

So what did I do? Take pictures OF her, instead of WITH her, lol... My girl looked me out and was trying to track her down! So funny, either way it was a good night, and I'm sure I'll have another encounter with Kim soon.

Enjoy the pics!

Hillary in Colombia

No, not the Clinton, but the Duff!

Hillary Duff was just named Ambassador for the youth in Bogota, Colombia! This is so wonderful, I love Hilary(and so does Sugy), shes one of the VERY FEW, who are young stars and hasn't been in any sex scandals. She truly is a beautiful person and keeps herself busy doing charity work. She is truly a role model.

Hil will be in Bogota sometime between August 1st and the 15th.

The Freaks come out at Night

Yesterday I was supposed to show face at this place, Amalia/D'Or, well... I didn't. Instead I chose to walk the whole Central Park and just breathe in all the nasty fresh horse poop. It was so relaxing, I decided to sit on the nearest bench, next to the water and just people watch. I was amazed at the variety of people that I saw. I think I saw someone from every part of the world, not only that, but also, all types of characters, hippies, rockers, backpackers. It felt so good to be part of this amazing place, where you can taste whatever flavor your ummm,tongue? desires, whatever color you choose to paint with. What some might call "freaks" were out and about, but who am I? They were probably looking at me and thinking the same thing because my glare was burning a hole through them, staring at everyone as if I had never been in mass population before, as if I had just been let out, like Girl Interrupted. Not only did the *freaks* come out, but so did the damn bugs, and boy, I must have some sweet blood because they ate me right up! Looking like I got the chicken pox... *sigh*

Babygirl in Flight

So my babygirl left today. I know its only 10 days but being without her seems like an eternity. Its amazing the bond that some have with one another. That little girl means the world to me and I don't think there is anything I wouldn't do for her. Caring for her and always being by her side since the day she was born, I feel as she is part of me. I mean, we sleep together almost every night, my cuddling partner! Shes my roaddog, she's my life. I'm about to start crying right now, just thinking about her not being home when I get there. Hope these 10days fly by...

Good For Nothing

So last night after the show, I hop in the truck around 1am, after a long work day, I'm so thrilled to be heading back home, thoughts of my comfy big bed, thinking about cuddling with my bear, smiling as I'm heading down 10th ave.. when, POP! There goes the tire. You've got to be kidding me, I sit in the car thinking. Who am I going to call at 1something in the am to help me out??? Obvious, the only person I know in the city who would be up, but calling and texting to no avail... Luckily I remembered all the tire spots and was able to get there and get it fixed, some dollars/hours later, I was on my way. But the whole point of this is that this person who said they would do anything for me, couldn't even pick up the phone during what I felt was an "emergency". So this person promised to do anything? Yes, more like ANYTHING EXCEPT EVERYTHING. Dont volunteer yourself for shit if you cant keep your word, why is it so hard for people to keep their words nowadays? Good for nothing, thats what it is. But I realized that I didnt need any help afterall, got that shit taken care of on my own. So sad, that all we have is ourselves.

Happy Friday!

Or so it seems, since its our(most of our) last day for the holiday weekend! Its gone by pretty quickly. Im going to a new restaurant tonight called Sazon, its PuertoRican cuisine, hopefully its good. Theres a live band and DJ until 2am, most of the crew from Urban Latino Radio will be there, so I know it should be tons of fun!

Check it out:
http://www.sazonnyc.com/

Not the kinda Sex I was waiting for...

So last night my boy takes me to R&B live showcasing new talent at Providence (really nice place). Jeremih was set to perform so I HAD to go, since I'm obsessed with the sexy lil song. It was a real chill place, a lot of industry suits, not packed at all, laid back, it was great. The band was playing, drinks flowing, people mingling, and here I am just waiting for my song to come on... as predicted he was an hour late. Finally he came on, real cute, wore an MJ inspired jacket which was fly, sang three songs, one of which was Birthday Sex. At the end of these, at most 10 minutes, right after he ended Birthday Sex, he put the mic down and walked out...

WHAT?

Are you kidding me? You dont even say goodnight? or thanks? Just walk out and leave like if he had just had the performance of a lifetime. Who the hell does this lil ass 20yr old think he is? Not even Kanyes big ass ego would do some shit like that. I was so upset, felt like throwing my water bottle at him. Lame ass, rocking a mohawk, somebody needs to tell him that was like 6 mths ago, my girls dog has that hairstyle, so what does that say about you???

He's a new artist, he has a lo to learn...

That was my night... soon as he left the stage.. I was on my way back to the 'burbs...