Daily Feng Shui Love Dose

Place a pair of objects together, like 2 mandarin ducks or 2 cranes that mate for life, that will represent successful partnering in the far right rear corner of the bedroom or the Southwest corner

Single Men Alert!!!

For all you single ladies! Word on the street is that Lucky Strikes on WestSide is THE place to be! Even if you have no idea how to roll the ball, roll your ass over there and you just might hit a strike!!! Let me know how it goes! Happy Bowling!

Kick Rocks...

Appreciate... is the word of the day.
1 a: to grasp the nature, worth, quality, or significance of b: to value or admire highly c: to judge with heightened perception or understanding : be fully aware of d: to recognize with gratitude

Last night, after having a wonderful evening, I got a disturbing phone call from a good friend. It was so sad but, unfortunately these are the situations we seem to get ourselves into. I pity the man who doesn't know how to APPRECIATE.. the reason I pity them is because, something so easy to inherit or learn, they lack(at least most men I know), and because they lack the art of appreciating, the act of just KNOWING, they lose everything good in their life. To lose the best thing in your life because you couldn't APPRECIATE what you had, must haunt you and will haunt you for the rest of your life. Take it from my father... who lives with regret everyday of his life, and how miserable must that be.
The fact that they are so selfish to realize that half of the things we do for them... we don't HAVE TO... the fact that we will stop our dreams and live their lives for them to be happy, they just don't care... where did this feeling of entitlement come from? I know.. from us... the fact they we truly hope that one day they will notice that we are here, lying underneath their feet.. one day they will realize right? They have to. Again,we could only dream.
If only they would APPRECIATE what they have when they have it... For all the men out there... make a list... make a list of all the good things you had with her... and another list of all the good things you have without that good woman... see the difference?

My girl is going to be okay, and I know that there ARE good men out there... good single men? Now that's a little more difficult... but the right one for you, will come around.. I promise, until then.. tell him to GO KICK ROCKS.

DVF- Last Night-Candace Bushnell!!!!

I had such a great time last night! Feeling fabulous as ever... walking down with my girl to 14th and 10th for an event at DVF store,but before we crossed the street, we hid behind garbage and changed from our nasty lame flats to our fly 5inch heels!... Got there and immediately went for the champagne ( no "slender" wine was being served, so next best thing...) There were supposed to be Godiva chocolate being passed around, but I guess we mustve missed it, besides I had enough stored in my belly from Valentines! There were so many women, professional women, successful women, it was so inspiring... The best part was Candace Bushnell! I mean cmon she bought us Mr.Big!!! SATC, Lipstick Jungle!! We stood right in front of her while she spoke(and she spoke for a while) she looks amazing for being 50+. She had some wise words and got me thinking...
The photographer was on me and Ms.Last all night, he wanted to take pictures of us everywhere... so of course when time came to take a picture with Candace.. he wasn't around, ugh. So, being me being me, I tracked his ass down and he took like 5 pictures of us together!HaHa.. got it!
After the event we went out for late dinner and I met two wonderful young professional ladies... it was so nice to be in the presence of people who have the same interests and are motivated to be successful... not just be complacent with having babies and living on our tax money, feeling like OctoMom is their inspiration. I had such a wonderful night... I feel like I'm starting to find myself again, and it feels good. xoxo

Stay tuned for the pics!

RiRi/CB Update

Rumor has it that Chris is going to plead self-defense!!! Saying that Rihanna took his phone and started hitting him in the face... so to "protect" himself, he punched her dead in her forehead, backhanded her to split her lip and then bit her... nice Chris... nice.

It all started with a Philly cheesesteak...

Now my claws are out and I'm being my feisty little Colombian self. You see, here lies the problem. I ate yesterday, I mean I ATE... like a HUGE steak sandwich, all the works, peppers, onions and of course alot of ketchup... THEN at the train station I ordered a chicken salad wrap!!! OMG- talk about compulsive eating! So today I vowed to balance my calories out and now all I have ate today is a bowl of Special K and black coffee! I apologize for my nastiness, and for those that will encounter it a little later today, I apologize beforehand! xoxo

Ask me how class went...

FABULOUS!!! Keeping in mind that I am writing on public space,lol. No, really though I liked the class alot, it was a good first day, only about 13 students in the class and my prof. is fly! She used to be the Fashion Director/Editor at Essence magazine and now styles celebrities. She just came back from styling at the Oscars! I could definitely learn alot from her, she has had a lot of life experiences and is very wise. Everyone seemed really nice, it didn't look like everyone was there for the right reason, but hey... I'm there to better myself so could care less what everyone elses motives are. It was a 3 hour class, and I felt like I couldve stayed there all night. I'm excited for this, and hopefully I will get opportunities out of this.
Getting home was a different story... I cant even lie.. after class I walked out into the streets of NYC and felt sooooo lonely... Lonely in the City. I walked from 28th to 23rd street to catch the path, got to hoboken around 935pm and had to wait an HOUR for my next train, ugh. Ended up getting home around 11. Definitely a long, but PRODUCTIVE day.
I'm getting back to the old me, keeping busy, 3 jobs, no sleep, RocStar drinks all day... I love it! This is when I'm most hungry for progress, this is when I'm at my best. I'm my own Mike Tyson and I am NOT knocking myself out.